Todd Tucker claims in a circulating clip that Kandi Burruss once asked whether he was dating their nanny, adding a new detail to the public back-and-forth over their ended marriage.
The clip is part of Tucker’s self-produced project ’Til Divorce Do Us Part. It mixes domestic scenes—kitchen moments with children, outdoor conversations, and a closing title card for the project—with Tucker discussing the accusation. Early replies on the post were largely dismissive of Tucker, calling him a “cornball” and a “thirsty a— loser.”
Todd Tucker: Kandi Burruss Asked If I Was Dating the Nanny
The claim sits against a divorce that has already played out in court filings, interviews, and competing personal projects. Burruss and Tucker met in 2011 while he worked as a line producer on The Real Housewives of Atlanta. They married in April 2014; the wedding was documented in Bravo’s Kandi’s Wedding. They share son Ace (born 2016) and daughter Blaze (born 2019). Each also has an adult daughter from a prior relationship: Riley Burruss and Kaela Tucker.
Burruss announced in November 2025 that she was moving forward with divorce after “deep thought and a lot of prayer,” emphasizing co-parenting and her own peace. Contemporary reporting, including from Page Six and People, said she had learned he had been talking to other women.
The case included disputes over the guest house on the Atlanta property, household expenses, and parenting time. Court papers from Burruss described her as the primary caregiver and noted she had hired a nanny because of her work schedule; she also accused Tucker of limited day-to-day involvement despite short social-media videos. Tucker disputed the characterization, said he had been removed from the main house, and at one point sought temporary custody.
They reached a settlement in March 2026 that included joint legal and physical custody, no ongoing child or spousal support, a lump-sum payment from Burruss to Tucker, and his departure from the guest house.
Since the settlement, both have turned the split into content. Burruss has discussed the marriage in her one-woman show I Do. I Did. I’m Done. Tucker has promoted ’Til Divorce Do Us Part, which features conversations with other former RHOA husbands, including Peter Thomas, Apollo Nida, Dennis McKinley, and Ralph Pittman.
A September trailer moment in which Tucker told Thomas the couple had threesomes for “most of” the marriage drew a sharp public response from Burruss. She told People he was “choosing to sensationalize our sex life to stretch his five minutes of fame” and that consensual marital privacy should remain private. Tucker has countered that Burruss had already spoken about their sex life on RHOA, on Kandi Koated Nights, and through her Bedroom Kandi brand.
In a Page Six interview published September 23, Tucker described the period after separation—living alone in the guesthouse while the children were next door—as dark and isolating. He said he at one point “looked at my gun,” then pulled back because of his children, and that he is now attending church and seeking therapy.
He was vague about the specific incident that ended the marriage, referring to “another woman” and saying more would appear in the docuseries. He has also said he is not currently dating and needs time before he is ready for another relationship. Burruss has separately noted that Tucker tried multiple times to pitch a project centered on the RHOA men and that it was not picked up.
The nanny question highlighted in the October clip has not, as of early October, drawn a direct public reply from Burruss in major coverage.
It lands in a record that already includes her court statements about employing a nanny and earlier reports that concerns about other women contributed to the split. Tucker’s project continues to frame these details as his account of the marriage’s end; Burruss has treated similar disclosures as an extension of harm rather than necessary context. The circulating video simply puts one more alleged question—whether he was involved with the nanny—into that ongoing exchange.